Shirley Ballas pays tribute to 'incredible' Strictly Come Dancing star following shock death
Strictly Come Dancing Head Judge Shirley Ballas has paid a heartfelt tribute to her "dear friend" and former Strictly Come Dancing South Africa judge Michael Wentink, who has died aged 46.
Shirley Ballas has paid tribute to her "dear friend" Michael Wentink.
The news of the former Strictly Come Dancing South Africa judge's death, following a battle with depression aged 46, was confirmed by his dance partner and good friend Ralf Lepehne on October 4.
And Shirley - who serves as Head Judge on the UK version of the celebrity Latin and ballroom dance show - took to Instagram on Monday (06.10.25) to express her sadness.
Captioning a series of photos and videos of Michael over the years, Shirley wrote: "Feeling very sad this morning, after the loss of our dear friend and true industry legend, Michael Wentink … where do I even begin.
"Michael wasn’t just part of my life, he was like family. He wasn’t just an incredible dancer, he was a kind, caring soul who brought so much joy, warmth, and laughter into our lives.
"His loyalty and love were unmatched, and his smile was irreplaceable. He spent many days at my house, he loved the children and would forever be checking in.
"One of the kindest souls I’ve had the pleasure of crossing paths with."
In the media carousel, Shirley - who has a 39-year-old son, dancer-and-choreographer Mark Ballas, with her 64-year-old ex-husband, ballroom dancer Corky Ballas - included photos of her and Michael, including clips of their dance performances, as well as a solo picture of the Latin dance champion.
And referencing an image Shirley shared to her Instagram account, showing her and Michael in striking aqua blue outfits, the 'Queen of Latin' reminisced in her tribute to Michael: "I’ll never forget suggesting this aqua suit to Michael, and he just laughed saying, 'Let’s give it a go, Shirls.'
"@alanate11 did hair and as a team we all pulled it together so very beautifully. They danced magnificently and won. That’s a day I’ll carry with me forever."
Shirley ended her heartfelt tribute by saying how Michael made a huge impact in the world of dance.
She concluded with: "You touched so many lives, Michael, and I’m blessed to have been one of them.
"With a heavy heart, I’ll miss you deeply. Rest in peace, my friend, alongside your beautiful Beata.
"Forever in our hearts. X (sic)"
The news of Michael's passing was announced by Ralf Lepehne - Michael's dance partner and good friend - on October 4.
Taking to Instagram and captioning a solo photo of Michael, Ralf wrote: "In Loving Memory of Michael Wentink.
"With the heaviest of hearts, we share the sad news that our beloved Michael Wentink has passed away. He left us far too soon, and the loss is immeasurable.
"To the world, Michael was a true legend of Latin dance - a champion, an artist, and an inspiration to so many.
"He moved with a power and grace that left audiences breathless; a master of his art who commanded the stage with a fiery passion.
"Yet behind the trophies and the spotlight was the man we knew and loved - a dear friend and partner, a kind soul whose light touched our lives deeply.
"For years, he was engaged in a long and deeply private struggle, battling the relentless weight of depression with a quiet courage known only to those closest to him.
"His passing is a painful reminder that the brightest lights often cast the deepest shadows, and that the strongest among us can be fighting battles we cannot see. (sic)"
Ralf continued: "While our world is dimmer without him, Michael’s spirit, his laughter, and his profound passion for dance will live on in our hearts forever.
"May you finally find the peace you so deserved, Michael.
"With love and remembrance, Ralf, Hidemi, Haibo, Julie and his beloved Mou Mou and Lou Lou."
