Lupita Nyong'o wants to 'keep things to herself'
Lupita Nyong'o is determined to keep her private life out the spotlight.
Lupita Nyong'o is determined to keep her personal life out of the spotlight.
The 41-year-old actress has been romantically linked to actor Joshua Jackson in recent months - but Lupita wants her private life to remain private.
The Hollywood star - who split from TV commentator Selema Masekela in 2023 - told PEOPLE: "There's so much of my life that is public, to also make my personal life a part of the public conversation, it's a liability.
"What I learned is when things go south, then recovering from that moment takes longer because everybody knows.
"So in the name of just being allowed to have relationships that mean a lot to me, and grow from them on my own terms ... I want to keep things to myself."
Lupita has previously been much more open about her love life.
But the actress has now made a conscious decision to adopt a different approach.
She said: "There's a lack of control. I don't have control in things ... I'll say this: What's wonderful about social media is I get a say in what people know about me.
"But, there are parts of my life that I have no control over what people know. And it is unnerving. It's saddening at times - I'd say even disappointing and frustrating. But then I can't do anything about that.
"So what I can do is safeguard what I share as much as possible, and then leave the rest to God."
Last year, a source revealed that Lupita and Joshua were trying to keep their romance "under the radar".
The insider told Us Weekly: "Joshua and Lupita have been dating for a very short while now. They’re focusing on keeping their relationship under the radar as much as possible."
